Rules for life ...

G.I.D (glad i deg) = ILU (I Love You)

Life just gave me a rude wakeup-call … It made me realize that some things are more important in life than others. Here’s my new “rules” for life, feel free to adopt them as your own:
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Tell people you love them, often. You never know when it’s your last chance to do so.

Buy flowers for those you love NOW. They won’t be able to enjoy them if you wait until you have to put flowers on their grave.

Don’t let anyone sit alone on the holidays

Make sure your children know their grandparents

Do things together, create good memories

Turn the tv and laptop off during meals, talk about your day instead

Don’t stay mad. A disagreement is rarely so bad that it’s worth hating eachother for the rest of your lives …

Say “I love you, but right now I don’t like you very much”, instead of claiming that you hate someone you actually love

Don’t yell. Talk

Don’t critizise unless you have to. Give praise as often as possible, without overdoing it

There’s something good and beautiful in everyone. Make an effort to find it instead of looking for flaws in a person

Be tolerant

Take care of your health. The people that love you are just as afraid of loosing you, as you are of loosing them.

Call your parents atleast once a week, but don’t forget to visit them aswell

Make new traditions for your family, don’t forget the old ones

Last but not least …
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Remember that Destiny is a cruel mistress. You never know when she’ll decide to take away someone you love

The first kiss

One of the advantages of being single, is that you can flirt with whomever you want. Another advantage is that you have the opportunity to experience that magical first kiss. Of course, not all first kisses are magical. Some are “just” nice, some are really good, and a few are just awkward.
But, every once in a while you get to experience the kind of first kiss that inspires movies, romantic novels, art and poetry.

The thing about that kind of kiss I’m talking about is that it starts a while before the kiss itself. It starts with flirting, or a look, by bumping into each other at a party. It starts when you meet someone who makes you FEEL them, even though you’re not even touching each other. Do you know the feeling I’m talking about? When you KNOW he’s standing behind you, even though you can’t see or hear him. But you can tell that he’s there from the way your skin tingles, your breath catches in your chest, your heartbeat quickens. If he’s sitting next to you it gets hard to concentrate, you feel that you may as well be naked.

Then, when that magical moment finally arrives. When you realize he’s going to kiss you. For a brief moment, time stops. All of the sudden you’re extremely aware of HIM, and the rest if the world is blurred out.

Hopefully, if you’re lucky. That won’t be the last time you kiss him (or her, if that’s your preference). Hopefully, that won’t be the last time one of his kisses has that magical feel to it.

Let’s just cross our fingers, shall we?

Butterflies

Normally you only find butterflies outside in the summer, but even though it’s November I actually have 3 of them in my house. One is an actual butterfly, which has decided to hibernate in my hallway. It sits up in the corner, pretending to be invisible …

The other two however are made of metal and reside in my little box of toys.
And, if you just guessed that this will be another toy review, then you’re absolutely right.

My new toys from Eden Fantasys are a set of Butterfly nipple clamps. I didn’t own any nipple clamps, so I was really happy for the opportunity to try out these.
My first reaction was ….



OUCH!!! O.o

They hurt! I know they’re supposed to, but they’re REALLY painful!
I’ve only tried them in non-play mode, and they actually brought tears to my eyes. Hopefully, when I’m in a playsession, with all those wonderful endorphins coursing through my system, they won’t hurt as much. If they work like the clover clamps they seem to be a copy of, they should tighten as you pull on the chain. Thing is, I don’t think I’ll be able to take much more of that. Not in non-playmode anyway.